My friend and fellow cookbook author Carla Lalli Music and her family rented the same house in Montauk for many years and, many a late July, Chad and I would drive to join them for a summer dinner. Carla and I met working in the magazine world and have been close for more than a decade now. Our real bond came about when we realized that our families hail from the same part of Italy, a small province about an hour outside of Naples called Av