My wife, Alyona, made this for me when we first got married. She grew up eating it and served it to me with much fanfare. While it was not love at first bite, over the years the dish has grown on me, and I have developed a great love for it.
Put the toor dal in a bowl, wash in plenty of water 2 or 3 times, and drain. Add 2cups (400ml) water and soak for 30 minutes. Drain the dal in a colander.