PETER: I always thought it was interesting that Kathy would say I was the better chef at Nanking, but at home, Lily took the title. I never understood how I could be good in one place and not the other. It wasn’t until Kathy was much older that I understood her rationale. By the time Kathy hit middle school, she was self-sufficient enough to take care of all her own meals, which meant there were many long a
